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rah yer 09

Posted: September 22, 2009 in f.r.i.e.n.d.s, family, Wife
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the eve was nuts. i have no idea why i agreed to go geylang serai. jio’ed bert & dya along… this is a virgin attempt and like bungee jumping, i would never ever wanna get involved with geylang serai on hari raya’s eve ever again.. ever!

bert got to drive my car after. a good build up to his pre car loan. heh…

we only reached home like 4.30am. and thats not it. the prep wasnt sempurna of yet. so had to put the kueh’s in the bottle. by the time it was done and me to take a short nap, it was already 5.45am. urrrghhh! and mr wong who’s supposed to follow me didnt reply my text nor answer my call! ok, i had to leave him.

toss & turn, its already 6.15am. time to go for prayers. ayah called. he asked where i would be doing my prayers. he then said he wanna come along. adik drove ibu’s and we meet at masjid kubur. we were late. lucky for me and adik, we got a tiny space just beside the wudhu’s area. yep, we got wet a little.

BMW = bak, me , wife

BMW = bak, me , wife

after the prayers, we go kubur visiting.  atok’s, sister in law’s dad, mak, nenek grave were visited. by the time we are done, it was almost noon. i got home, controlling my sleep. bert reached at the same time, but he had to wait a while for me to clear my bowels. super cannot take it. handed him the keys, and off he go visiting. my folks were already waiting for us, but we were late.

before we leave home, salam’ed my FIL. the emotions begin… no… the emotions began the night before. when i go takbir with dad. the usual visits from late grandpops never failed.

the traffic lights

the traffic lights

back to my folk’s place, after the salam menyalam, we took a family pic. then went back home to fetch bak and start jalan raya. aunty yati’s place, followed by nanan’s. then off to jurong. 9pm and ive not met my grandma. 140 to clementi only to be greeted by unknown faces and nek long. while spending the first 10 mins with nenek, got a call about atuk’s critical condition. so we had to rush off to TTSH with the zam zam. it was already midnight when we learnt that atuk was managed to revive and put under high dependency unit.

back to jurong house then off home. tired…..

so it was a salam raya and leave kindda thing this year. haiz.

Dadi birthday today

Posted: May 5, 2009 in Uncategorized
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Happy birthday to you ayah. You are my gem, my life, my soul, my driver in my heart. You are the only human I ever worship. We always do and will forever have that instinct about each other.

Though on the surface we are silent, there’s somewhere in us that we do connect. Today, 5th may, u turn 56. I wish u happiness, I wish you love.

I’m sorry I didn’t turn out what u expected me to. I’ve did many decisions in my life which u may wish I weren’t yours. I’m sorry. I’m sorry for the trouble or shame I put u thru.

May god lengthen your life to let me see ur joy living thru your golden years. I love you ayah. More than it’s imaginable.


Posted: October 10, 2006 in Isk, rants & ramblings
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undergoing some financial stress these period. am no longer holding on to daddy’s teaching in finance. he used to tell me that a man must have at least a hundred bucks in his wallet. i was having that practice till early this year. the practise was no longer in place. i start to have financial struggle again. but i do manage to scrape thru the month.

i wouldnt want to be living like this. i have lots of worries on my head. ahhh ok lah.. bye.